Musings on Love

Here are some lovely words about love from my very eloquent, and loving, son, Josiah:

Do we ever stop to think what we are doing when we decide to love?  Love (take it in any sense you like, you can have your pick of the Greek) is an act of supreme hazard - some might call it a kind of violence.  There are, of course, differences in degree - the husband loves his wife with stronger ardor than one friend loves another - but the activity of the heart in both instances is of a piece.  In some way, some glorious, terrible way beyond our puny mortal comprehension, one heart is bound to another.  These very bonds which bring so much joy introduce the possibility of pain, as the very capacity to feel brings with it the potential for both pleasure and agony.  The bonds themselves are tainted by the filth of our hearts, as sin corrodes the psyche, clouding both judgment and emotion.  Yet the very fact that we are able to love at all is a miracle, a grace we should have no reason to expect from the Creator we rebelled against.

AND YET HE LOVED US FIRST.

Love itself is a kind of rebellion, an inclination of the soul which openly defies the power of darkness and its clamoring hatred.  The prince of darkness may still corrupt our love into a horror, a mere carnal desire or superficial attachment.  Yet when we love truly, with simple, honest devotion, we spite the enemy, moving - even if only by a fraction - toward the nature which we were intended to have, toward a vision of the Kingdom to come, toward the image of He who made it possible.

Love should not be an insipid, mewling little thing which we dress in the palest, least offensive colors and stoop to pet when it suits us.  This is not love, but an abomination masquerading as virtue in a world where virtue has no meaning.

Love is not harmless.  Love is dangerous.  Yet it is worthwhile, only insofar as it flows from the One who burns white-hot at the center of reality, Love Himself, the One who sacrificed His Son, who hung on the cross in agony, having done no wrong, that we might be truly loved.

Brothers and sisters, let's not proclaim our love - for each other and for the world - with platitudinous whispers and mutterings.  Let's declare our intent to love with one voice, roaring to the heavens.  Love is our battle cry, and our commander, and our prize.  Let us take love as seriously as He did.